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Confronting Disagreements in a Social Media World

By Jo Holt

If you’ve been anywhere near the internet lately, you’ve probably seen the headlines swirling around Pope Leo and President Trump. What started as a nuanced exchange between two powerful figures quickly became — as social media tends to do — a full-on battle narrative. Outlets framed it as a war between the White House and the Catholic Church. Soundbites were clipped, quotes were stripped of context, and before long, people were choosing sides based on reactions to reactions rather than anything either man actually said.

Sound familiar? It should. Because it happens in our businesses every single day.

The Scroll-and-Judge Trap

We live in an age of instant information — and instant opinion. A colleague sends a message that rubs you the wrong way. A client misreads your proposal. A partner pushes back on a decision you worked hard on. And in that moment, with the speed of a social media hot take, we’re tempted to react. To judge. To decide.

But here’s the thing: quick judgments are rarely fair ones.

The media frenzy around Pope Leo and President Trump is a perfect reminder of what happens when we skip the step of discernment — that patient, prayerful, careful process of examining what’s really being said, what’s really at stake, and what’s really true. When we don’t do that work, we fill in the blanks with assumptions. And assumptions almost always get us into trouble.

Leading With Something Better

As consecrated business owners, we’re called to something different. Our work isn’t just about profit or productivity — it’s about purpose. And that purpose is rooted in serving the common good.

The principles of Catholic Social Justice, which we explore together in our course Foundations in Faith, give us a beautiful framework for navigating moments of tension and disagreement. They remind us that every person we work with — every colleague, client, and partner — carries inherent dignity. They invite us to listen before we react, to seek understanding before we seek victory, and to lead with love even when the conversation is hard.

That’s not weakness. That’s wisdom.

Before You React, Pause

The next time a disagreement lands in your inbox, your meeting room, or your DMs — resist the scroll-and-judge reflex. Ask yourself:

  • Do I have the full picture?
  • Have I listened as much as I’ve spoken?
  • Does my response serve the common good, or just my frustration?

The world has enough hot takes. What it needs — what your business and community need — is your thoughtful, faith-rooted leadership.

And that’s always worth the pause.

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